Do you consider yourself to have a fetish?
Hey everyone, I have a thought provoking question for you. Do you find yourself to be more of a vanilla sexual personality or are you a fetish freak? I've been surprised asking dozens of guys and girls about this because I always had assumed that everyone was into some sort of fetish. But that just isn't the case. Which is totally fine. I truly believe whatever turns you on (with the exception of a couple common sense no-no's for fetishes) do it. Explore it. Try it. You never know if you truly have a specific sexual need that needs to be satisfied unless you look it up on PH and then try it.
My husband and I just started cuckolding about ago (i know right! You would have thought we'd done it longer than that lol) and it has been the most liberating and sexually freeing feeling ever. At first, I was presented with the fact of getting to have sex with whomever I chose (obviously a bull with a bigger D than my cuck) and make it my own. I was super aprehensive, but knew that it was something that my husband and I just had to explore or else, truth be told, thats how a lot of marriages fail sexually. Sex is one of the biggest aspects of a healthy marriage. Exploring with your spouse, communicating is key!, and knowing how to set boundaries. This can be difficult especially if one spouse really wants something specific but you might not be okay with it. Tell your lover. They will appreciate it later.
Never, ever be afraid to talk to your partner about what you like and want to try. I have had the experience in my of marriage, that if I was not okay with doing a certain fetish (which I usually almost always participated anyways) I would sometimes get closed off and shy about it....which is not cool. Its been a learning curve and it can really strengthen or weaken a relationship very quickly.
So tell me boys and girls, do you have any fetishes? Have you gotten to try it yet and if so was your partner cool with it? Share your experiences! xxx