Mistress K

Post #7: Q: Hi. My husband and I are exploring the femdom lifestyle. We are both loving it, but there are a few challenges. Could I humbly please ask you for some suggestions and tips? For example, my husband sometimes feels there is too little domination and that I am not dominant enough. And sometimes I am even too dominant. It is difficult to find the middle way .
 
First of all, you do not need to humbly ask me anything. You can ask me anything, anytime, without being humble. Your hubby needs to ask humbly, though. Secondly, if there is an FLR we are talking about here, your husband is in no position to have any opinion of how dominant you should be or not.
 
As I have said before, I am not an expert, but can only share my own experiences. So all I can talk about is my own experiences with hubby. If you want expert advice, ask someone who claims to be an expert (doesn't exist). I can say that I and hubby have experimented for years to make this work. It is like any other relationship. We are all experimenting, vanilla or not.
 
But I do have an idea of what you are talking about. We have a case of topping from bottom here, sister. He should have no saying of how much you dominate him or not. If he shows any opinion of that, just stop your Mistress role and go back to vanilla. I am not saying this is a right way to do it, I only say that worked for us (it will work, trust me 😉 ). If there is a middle way, that is solely up to you. 
 
He should have no saying what is enough or not enough domination. You decide that. Just stop. Lock him in his cage, if he has one, and monitor what he does. Just release him if he continues his bad behaviour, and tell him it is not acceptable. Then just quit domination and ask what he wants. Just don't be a Mistress who is being dominated. Why not just then stop and live vanilla? That is fine too. 🙂
 
I think I will divide this into three categories:
 
1) We are playing bdsm and having fun, but of course it does not go outside the bedroom . How nice. 🙂 Enjoy!
2) We are playing femdom and having fun inside the bedroom and a little outside the bedroom. But outside there are some differences. That is fine. Just agree and not top from bottom.
3) We are not playing femdom, we are living it, consensual from both parts. There is no topping from bottom, because that will backfire.
 
Most people probably do 1) or 2). That is great. Enjoy folks. 🙂
  
A few does 3).
 
 I am!

Post #6: Q1: How do you get cocks and get fucked in your ass and pussy when your hubby is like this? Do you get fucked? Q2: I am curious, are you yourself sexually satisfied? 
 
To Q1: No, his pee-pee is a control stick, and I am not interested in any other sticks. But, do not ask me that question ever again. None of your business.
 
To Q2: Very much so. 🙂 Penetration is not the most important part of sex for all women. I actually get more than him. There are other ways than pee-pee's. Better ways, in fact. We do have great sex and we do make love, actually.  ❤️ It does not necessarily involve penetration (that doesn't work anymore, anyway), and certainly not orgasms for him (obviously). He is not in the position to be satisfied.
 
I am!
 
And yes, I am sexually satisfied. Even more now than before, actually. It is of course very sad for hubby that he is not sexually satisfied, but that is of course the point ... but who cares? Keep the fucker horny, is all I'm saying. 

Post #5: Q:  I do not understand the thing about this. Why do you deny your husbands orgasms? I really do not get it. But thanks for your videos.
  
Because he is not the woman in this relationship. 
 
I am! 
 
And I say he cannot cum. 
 
Anything else?

Post #4 - Q:  You are disgusting! Do you really hate men that much? Why do you hate your husband so much, that you do not allow him to cum? F*ur years? He will leave you and you are going to be alone soon. He will leave you and find a better woman. He can kick your ass anytime, and he is much stronger than you! You fucking bitch!
 
Although I think the question is badly formulated (I even corrected the mispellings here, for your convenience, and there were lots of them), I think the essence of the question is worth answering. I actually managed to decode the misspelled sentences. Kudos! Wasn't easy.  Correcting the errors didn't take me too much time - probably less time that it took for him to write this. What an effort! I would love to know his penis size. 😉  No, I am just kidding, I am not going to sink to that level. Though, I think I just did. 😜 Can you post the size here please?. Or is it the biceps you want to measure? I couldn't care a fuck. 
 
But no, I do not hate men. And most importantly, I love my husband. You are free to ask him about his situation. Contact HersBoiToy if you want to ask him direclty.
  
A femdom marriange is not about doing something that the other part does not want. I know that my hubby is a strong person at his job. I am impressed at what he does. Actually, in some areas I can understand that he is superior to me. I am constantly amazed at of how brillant he can be. I love him. However, we decided TOGETHER that i am the boss. He submits because he wants to. I do not hate men and at least not him. I love him. But as we have decided, he is now mine and he wants this. I took away his orgasms. I might be a bitch, but that is the way it is. But we are adults and have agreed together on a solution and a setting that works perfectly. It is that simple.   
  
In the question I answer to, it is said that hubby can kick my ass anytime. But I can tell you that he can not. He is not able to kick my ass, let alone any woman or touch a woman in any way. It will never happen. He could be the boss, but he is not. He could physically, but not mentally. Because he is a man. You are not. He is a little sissy, though. He is that, I grant you that. But he will not touch any woman in any bad way. I do touch him in a bad way, though. 😉 Because we have agreed that he is not the boss in this relationship.
 
I am!
 
And he wants that. This might be one of the most serious posts until now, but the whole point is: It is completely consensual. Isn't it, hubby?